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got a funny feeling.
im so unhappy right now and so is my partner
we just dont seem to talk anymore and we bitch and fight all the time.
im fed up with feeling unhappy. but i dunno what to do if i do leave him
i would know where to go to live and stuff im so scared
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Hey hun.
Ahh bless ya!!
Of course so many relationships are different. I would say that you really do need to sit down and speak with him. Call or text him and say that you need to sit and talk about things like sensible adults.
That certainly is a start. You need to be honest with eachother what you want and for Jakes sake sort things out either way so you no where you both stand.
Good Luck with it huns. Let us no how you get on. x
Ahh bless ya!!
Of course so many relationships are different. I would say that you really do need to sit down and speak with him. Call or text him and say that you need to sit and talk about things like sensible adults.
That certainly is a start. You need to be honest with eachother what you want and for Jakes sake sort things out either way so you no where you both stand.
Good Luck with it huns. Let us no how you get on. x
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Oh hon, don't be scared. I have just been through the same thing with my OH. We were together for seven years and for at least the last two we argued pretty much constantly until I had enough and got brave enough to finish it. There is all sorts of financial help you can get if you do decide to leave him. I'm not saying you should, but don't stay in an unhappy situation if it is just because you are worried, I was too but I am so much happier now. You're not on your own hon, we are all here for you if you need us
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XxjacksmummyxX wrote:Hey hun.
Ahh bless ya!!
Of course so many relationships are different. I would say that you really do need to sit down and speak with him. Call or text him and say that you need to sit and talk about things like sensible adults.
That certainly is a start. You need to be honest with eachother what you want and for Jakes sake sort things out either way so you no where you both stand.
Good Luck with it huns. Let us no how you get on. x
he wont listen to me and another thing is this isnt the first time. i have left him couple of times in the past.
and he says to me your the one that is splitting jakes family up if u go.
it really hurts im scared hes gonna say that again. x
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Aww hun, I know it is a really scary prospect to be on your own with a child after being in a relationship.
I agree you really need to have a chat with your partner and sort things out if possible, and if you cant, at least you know where you stand and you can start working out what to do.
You can contact the council and ask to be put on the housing list, if you need a council property, or start looking for a rented property, although you will have to pay a month + a deposit usually.
Keep us informed hun, hope it doesnt come to you moving out and you manage to sort things out xx
I agree you really need to have a chat with your partner and sort things out if possible, and if you cant, at least you know where you stand and you can start working out what to do.
You can contact the council and ask to be put on the housing list, if you need a council property, or start looking for a rented property, although you will have to pay a month + a deposit usually.
Keep us informed hun, hope it doesnt come to you moving out and you manage to sort things out xx
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