fathers will
Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2011 3:57 pm
Excellent new section! welcome marie and mark.
I will start this new section off with a question that has recently been bothering me.
My mother passed away 9 years ago. she owned the family home. my father has 2 children from a previous relationship who have never lived with us. their relationship with my mum was never great and now it is the same between me and them. we are very distant.
My mother left the family house to my father but on the condition that it is left to me only in his will. as far as i know from what he has told me this is the case although i have never been allowed to see a full copy of my mums will for reasons i guess there is something in there that would allow me to cut the apron strings from him and be worry free (our relationship is also strained and ge likes to be in control).
Obviously when he passes away there will be things of his left to my siblings but they will be in the house left to me. will they be allowed to access his/my house without my permission? (they know the house is left to me) the reason i ask is because there are also alot of things of my mums in there still that i worry will be taken or mistaken as my dads.
I will start this new section off with a question that has recently been bothering me.
My mother passed away 9 years ago. she owned the family home. my father has 2 children from a previous relationship who have never lived with us. their relationship with my mum was never great and now it is the same between me and them. we are very distant.
My mother left the family house to my father but on the condition that it is left to me only in his will. as far as i know from what he has told me this is the case although i have never been allowed to see a full copy of my mums will for reasons i guess there is something in there that would allow me to cut the apron strings from him and be worry free (our relationship is also strained and ge likes to be in control).
Obviously when he passes away there will be things of his left to my siblings but they will be in the house left to me. will they be allowed to access his/my house without my permission? (they know the house is left to me) the reason i ask is because there are also alot of things of my mums in there still that i worry will be taken or mistaken as my dads.