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#1 Unread post by jakie_my_cheeky_monkey » Tue Mar 17, 2009 1:06 pm




im so unhappy right now and so is my partner
we just dont seem to talk anymore and we bitch and fight all the time.
im fed up with feeling unhappy. but i dunno what to do if i do leave him
i would know where to go to live and stuff :( im so scared
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#2 Unread post by XxJack~AcexX » Tue Mar 17, 2009 1:21 pm

Hey hun.
Ahh bless ya!!
Of course so many relationships are different. I would say that you really do need to sit down and speak with him. Call or text him and say that you need to sit and talk about things like sensible adults.
That certainly is a start. You need to be honest with eachother what you want and for Jakes sake sort things out either way so you no where you both stand.
Good Luck with it huns. Let us no how you get on. x
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#3 Unread post by Clairebear » Tue Mar 17, 2009 1:21 pm

Oh hon, don't be scared. I have just been through the same thing with my OH. We were together for seven years and for at least the last two we argued pretty much constantly until I had enough and got brave enough to finish it. There is all sorts of financial help you can get if you do decide to leave him. I'm not saying you should, but don't stay in an unhappy situation if it is just because you are worried, I was too but I am so much happier now. You're not on your own hon, we are all here for you if you need us :)
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#4 Unread post by jakie_my_cheeky_monkey » Tue Mar 17, 2009 1:34 pm

XxjacksmummyxX wrote:Hey hun.
Ahh bless ya!!
Of course so many relationships are different. I would say that you really do need to sit down and speak with him. Call or text him and say that you need to sit and talk about things like sensible adults.
That certainly is a start. You need to be honest with eachother what you want and for Jakes sake sort things out either way so you no where you both stand.
Good Luck with it huns. Let us no how you get on. x


he wont listen to me and another thing is this isnt the first time. i have left him couple of times in the past.
and he says to me your the one that is splitting jakes family up if u go. :(
it really hurts im scared hes gonna say that again. x
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#5 Unread post by Schmushe » Tue Mar 17, 2009 1:36 pm

Aww hun, I know it is a really scary prospect to be on your own with a child after being in a relationship.
I agree you really need to have a chat with your partner and sort things out if possible, and if you cant, at least you know where you stand and you can start working out what to do.

You can contact the council and ask to be put on the housing list, if you need a council property, or start looking for a rented property, although you will have to pay a month + a deposit usually.

Keep us informed hun, hope it doesnt come to you moving out and you manage to sort things out xx


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#6 Unread post by Jeanette » Tue Mar 17, 2009 1:45 pm

I agree with the others that you need to have another go at talking with him.
You're bound to be feeling scared, so tell him this but try and keep it calm.
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#7 Unread post by XxJack~AcexX » Tue Mar 17, 2009 10:22 pm

Hey hun. Did you manage to get to speak to him this evening?
Thinking of you hun!! x
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#8 Unread post by lauraannek » Tue Mar 17, 2009 10:34 pm

hope you managed to have a chat with your partner and have sorted something out either way x x x
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#9 Unread post by jakie_my_cheeky_monkey » Wed Mar 18, 2009 9:09 am

hi Ladies

I Have Had A chat with him,
And we are gonna give it ago. :)

Thank's for all of your supports :)

i just hope it works out.
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#10 Unread post by lea-marie » Wed Mar 18, 2009 11:24 am

I caught this a little late - but I'm glad that you've got this sorted hun x
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#11 Unread post by Clairebear » Wed Mar 18, 2009 10:22 pm

Aw, glad you have sorted it hon :)
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