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I lost my baby on Monday I should b 12 weeks today

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I lost my baby on Monday I should b 12 weeks today

#1 Unread post by yummymummy8 » Wed Dec 11, 2013 10:38 am

I lost my baby on Monday its hurts soo much all my friends r pregnant when is the best time to try again should I wait or try again my head is a mess xxx


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#2 Unread post by Leanne&5children » Wed Dec 11, 2013 10:57 am

Didn't want to read and run, but sorry for your loss xxxxx
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#3 Unread post by weezypops » Wed Dec 11, 2013 11:01 am

So sorry to hear that. Honestly, I don't think it's something anyone else can decide for you. I had three miscarriages between Iris and Dexter and after the first two we started trying again straightaway, I got pregnant again really easily etc. and it really was what we wanted. After the third though we'd just had enough and decided not to try again. Of course, Dexter had other ideas and I got pregnant with him about 9 months later - a total surprise baby.

Take some time to recover and see how you feel in a few weeks - it's so soon to be making a decision but you will probably find you know if you want to try again. The hospital always said to me that physically there was no reason to wait any longer than when you get your first period back, it just depends on if you're ready emotionally.

Big hugs to you and you can always talk here if you need to - a lot of us have been through it and know how horrible it is.
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#4 Unread post by EmmaC » Wed Dec 11, 2013 11:17 am

So so sorry for your loss. It's still very, very early days so it will be very raw and painful.
I too have had a couple of miscarriages before Finn and Isla arrived.
Only you will know when the right time is. I fell pregnant with finn just 2 and a half weeks after miscarrying the second of our twins. Physically you're at your most fertile after a loss. That said I was a complete nervous mess for the duration of the pregnancy fearing it was too good to be true.
Take time to heal and mourn and decide for yourself when you're ready.
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#5 Unread post by weezypops » Wed Dec 11, 2013 11:22 am

Yes, I spent the whole pregnancy with Dexter thinking it was going to go wrong - each scan helped but I think once you've experienced any kind of loss it stays with you.
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#6 Unread post by Gina73 » Wed Dec 11, 2013 2:24 pm

So sorry to hear your news. I suffered 1 miscarriage before Mia and two between Mia and Mason. I agree everyone deals with it differently and you have to do what you feel is best. Grieve and talk about it to people who will listen if it helps. We are always here to listen if it helps you. Take care x
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#7 Unread post by XxJack~AcexX » Wed Dec 11, 2013 3:01 pm

Sending you a massive hug hun.
It's not nice I no. You will no when the times right huni.
Just take each day and week as it comes. I'm sorry to hear your loss. xx
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#8 Unread post by Jeanette » Wed Dec 11, 2013 10:20 pm

So sorry to hear of your loss. Lots of the ladies on here have experienced loss themselves, so will be able to help if you feel the need to talk.
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